Corporate leaders wandered through the store thanking, hand shaking and well wishing employees a happy holidays and a congratulations for a successful year. Among the chatter an introduction of a new employee was made and with the introduction came an explanation that this employee was in between jobs and was working here until full time employment was to be found. I cringed. Never would I begrudge someone from finding full time employment but I knew that soon we would be searching for yet another employee.
Days later I found out that someone else had taken that conversation much differently. This person had taken the conversation to mean that the new employee was much better than the rest of us and had lowered himself to work here till his feet landed that perfect job. He chose to believe there was an implication that we had chosen unworthy careers and were stuck here forever.
Often I have heard it, said it and even written about it, words mean things. We have to be careful! Tis very true, however, very often words don't mean things. We often make up meanings to build up something within our souls. We get upset, mad, bitter or create a cleverness about ourselves dragging in ideas that were not intended.
Why choose to read negative thoughts into harmless situations? Do I enjoy the bitterness, hatred and spite? Is it all really worth it? If I become this bitter old man, people will not want to hear my opinion. They will not want to desire in my desires or suffer in my suffering. And they surely will not want to know my God.
Many times I conjure up ideas about what people say and it affects my perspective of others and makes my flavor distasteful and my light go dim.
Matthew 5:13
"You are the salt of the earth; but if
the salt loses its flavor, how shall it
be seasoned/? It is then good for
nothing but to be thrown out and
trampled underfoot by men."
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Matthew 5:16
"Let your light so shine before men
that they my see your good works and
glorify your Father in Heaven."
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I pray that in this new year our flavor will be rich and our light will shine bright.
Happy New Year!
Good reminder! I try to think of this at times when I feel myself get defensive. Sometimes it's hard though to step back and realise someone may not mean something the negative way in which I took it, and, if they did, may still not be motivated in the way I'm judging them to be motivated. It's hard sometimes to let go and let God judge the heart.
ReplyDeleteHow true! Judgment is the great hinderer of growth. Often I feel I need to cope rather than grow. If I am satisfied with myself and think changing is up to everyone else I am in deep doo-doo. Thanks Katy for thinking with me.
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